I'll roll the contents in a while.Introduction first.

Everyone wants to love.Everyone wants to be loved.No matter how rich,how poor,how smart,how ugly,how short,how retarded,as long as you have a heart,you know you wannna get into a romance.But many people tell me 'Hey,is that chick looking at me?','How do I get to know that hunk?'All these doubts and wonders may or may not lead you to your marriage vow,and it depends what you do after that.It's simple.To be in love,you need to control and be in control.Love is just like balancing each other on a beam balance.If you lose control,you can't expect your partner to stay firm.He or she may also go bonkers.Also,love has no logic.Expect no formula to follow during your progression with somebody.

In this short post,I'll list on the factors and some advices to follow in order to get in love.

First.Hooking potential targets on the street is not shameful.Rather,if you are able to make yourself do it regardless of whether you success or not,the experience will be a prideful one for you to show off to your buddies.As the old sayings,'Don't be afriad,they are not eating you up.'It's your mindset that's eating you.If you really want to know somebody that much,you should give yourself a try(not limiting to the streets,but maybe some locations such as workplace where you see somebody over and over again during your daily routine).It won't hurt if you do things properly.

First Law
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Any undesired response from a girl is a perfect opportunity to turn things around and to be not affected by her in any way.
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That is to say that whenever a girl gives off a cold,unintended response to a guy,it simply means to exist for a reason.Girls sometimes get cold out of a sudden,and hot at another.These are merely 'checks' that are implied to ensure a guy she's interested in to be able to response them well.If a guy cannot endure the coldness and emotionally attribute that is presented,much less the chances are he may not stay intact during the relationship.Girls present these symptons to check on the guy whether he can 'stay on course' as a simulation.If a guy can flexibility,playfulness or calmness under these facades,the girl will understand that the guy had seen throught the plot,and that these symptons cannot move him into a state in which he might turn down the relationship in future,known as breakup.This which in turn allows the girl to pay more respect to the guy in future.This is a series of chain reaction that occurs only,if you do things right as a guy.

So guys,don't sweat when a girl suddenly goes crazy and not talk to you like you massacre her family.These undesired response will happen no matter what,and be glad its there.It's just passport checkpoint check to determine whether you are up for the task anot.And be happy that these symptons are displayed,because it is a time for you to display your calm response in return to suit her request.

Also,if these checks does not exist in a girl you like...please sweat.If means you have to work harder to see those checks before you can display your decisive nature.(or it might mean that you will never get that girl.)

Second Law
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Gifts never works on girls in the first place if you are pursuing a real romance.
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Do not bother giving a girl you like something she likes(or hate if you prefer) when she does not even like you or know you at all.How much she likes you is not weigh by the quantity or quality of the gifts you present to her.

Hoever if you are being demanded to dig your pockets to afford the items she wants over some period of time...then there's something wrong.

Gifts can be useful,but do not overuse it.As starters,gifts almost does nothing to help your romance climb higher.It only helps in aiding your relationship with the girl,as a friend.Triggering the emotional factor in a girl is not done by merely gifts,which I will explain in the few sections later.

Anyway,if the girl is crazy about you,she dosen' care what you provide her with,she likes you anyway =)

Third Law
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Deceive yourself.
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In your mind,you can say anything you want.You can picture yourself in anything you want.Simply,out-imagine yourself.Not handsome?Don't sweat.Picture yourself as a top-notch model.Tell yourself you can.Giving yourself a 'false' and positive image will pump yourself with confident.And many guys simply do not have that sole energy to burn in order to step up and start a conversation.Pumping yourself with this mental energy will allow you accomplish stuffs you may not ever try to do.To the eyes of girls,they do not care what you burn to supply the energy,as long as you have the initiative to step up,they are more than welcome to start a chit chat,even if it means a greeting,or a question.

As human beans,our big bean in our head has a system installed ever since you are born,and the system is called: Gender Authentification

Once you push yourself to move on with assurance,your body will automatically response to each other.You will be able to talk fluently as long as you started a conversation.So why fear?Just boost yourself with the confidence and let your bean does all the work.You will speak faster and gesture better than you notice you did.

Fourth Law
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Do what's right.
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As a man,most oftenly during a relationship you are the dick who does all the desicion making.Even if you do not,you have to have a great decision making skill,that will allow your relationship to progress perfectly,if I would say.

Let me ask you this.

What is the aim you want to achieve during a dating with a girl you like,in which you want to progress your relationship with her further?

Compare your answer with:

What is the factor girls want during a date?

During a date,a successful man knows that a girl wants EMOTIONAL EXPERIENCE during a date with that somebody she desire with.No use doing dining and movie watching,star glaring,chit chatting if all you does do not trigger her emotional response deep down in her cerebrum,located in the limbic system.

many guys have the wrong concept of thinking:

Alright its a date,I shall see what I do and see how it goes.

No,girls want experience tht is truely meant for her,special,unique,and must be emotional.They want something that they can share with her friends like:hey remember that cute dude we saw last week?I went out with him and we did this and that...

Nothing emotional,she can't remember well,let alone articulate it.

As a girl,she wants to FEEl something,when she's out with a guy.

You failed as a guy if she feels nothing going out with you.
Why?Simply because if she feels no chemistry reaction inside her,she will dump your name into the whole list under FRIENDS.

And it's tough to pull that shyt out of the FRIENDS category into the POTENTIAL BOYFRIEND list,which is empty,most of the time.

You see,once you do something right in the POTENTIAL BOYFRIEND list,chances are you will be promoted to as a Boyfriend if what you did is correct.

Making a girl to feel something towards you isn't so hard.You don't have to be a Prophet or Mathematician.All you need to do is trigger that goddamned Emotional Response.

Don't be shy or fear of impolite when you want to get close with a girl.Many people especially Asians failed at doing this.Ever remember those dramas when they have the actors and actresses unintentionally touched each other and have their emotional response triggered?Just a slight physical contact can boost your romance with that somebody.Furthermore,if your physical contact had been made,and to your surprise the girl dosen't loathe it,it means you have progress another step ahead =) This means the girl successfully accustomed to your physcial contact,which allows you to further close up the mental gap in abstract.

So remember,during a date,a girl wants to feel something to you,and she wants to feel connected to you.No use going on a date when all you does if checking you handphone which might be flat on the battery and you still check on it like you wanna repair it on the spot.If you are shy,do not distract yourself with gadgets and stuffs,the girl will get more distracted than you.You are not the only one who is shy during a date,girls are too.So make them feel connected,like going on war,the whole world is going against you and her,and its time to be connencted to annihilate the evil.If you ain't connected to her,who is your only allies during dating,how do you expect to make her feel something towards you?No transmission,how the hell the data is gonna be transferred?

Don't be dismoraled when you did or said something wrong.Instead,patch up that connection in order to prevent that awkward sensation that roses in her.The longer you allow that awkwardness to linger in her,the higher the chances are she feel 'disconnected'.

Be different when choosing your conversational topics.If it's not the first time your girl has dated someone,do not go all over again topics like: How's your school today?What did you eat for lunch just ago?Don't make the girl feel like Orh here we go again.Spam questions with emotional triggers to jam her thinking processes.If you are able to make a girl goes paralyze in her thinking processes,then only will she feel something for you.

So make it happen.